WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO ASK FOR A BREAKUP OR DIVORCE?
Are you wondering when is the right time to ask for a Breakup or Divorce from your partner?
Breaking up from your loved one can create a lot of negative emotions in the couple concerned. So, when is breaking up or divorce the very best thing for you?
I asked myself that question over many years, before I summoned up courage to ask for a divorce.
In my own case, I had “had enough” from my Ex, after he failed to stop dolling out extreme cruelty to me and our children.
-Physical abuse of me and our children.
-Constant accusations of infidelity – which were all unfounded and untrue.
-Constant financial abuse – refusing to help me financially even when the expenditure was for all the family.
-General nastiness – every day, so that I had to walk on egg shells, literally every day.
-Constant infidelity – going round women and boasting about it.
-And so on and so forth.
When I did ask for a divorce, all hell went loose. He presented me to his family members as the worst woman on earth, etc.
While it took me a long time to get over the excruciating pain of losing my marriage of twenty-five years, I never regretted the decision I took to leave the guy who had caused me so much pain, both emotionally and physically.
If you are still wondering what to do in your own situation, let’s talk. I can help you make sense of what you need to do, to give yourself some peace.
Please note that there will be pain and misery at the very beginning, but I now have tools and strategies to help you take the right steps at the right time, and to help you heal from your pain quite quickly.
If you have already broken up and are still struggling with your negaive emotions, I am here to help. Let me help you overcome your current emotional pain, so that you can start the process of rebuilding your life positively.
I survived my divorce, you too can survive your current negative situation.
Look after yourself!
Dr Grace Anderson.